My dear fellow readers, unfortuanately i'm going to be presenting my very unfortunate masculine side....oh dear..

To come about with the second entry on complaint's of being a women, I have thought about it. I had half a mind to discontinue at one point, but now when i think about it. Writting about it is just some sense of making women aware of how ridiculous they can be at times, maybe it may sound more ridiculous since this complaing is coming from a female herself.

Why is women just love to go gossipping behind backs of others? It is a known fact even tot he women themselves, that it just would not do.. further more... it's downright horrible. After speaking with girls naturally, i find that when this matter is actually brought about, they give the excuse that it is to release tension. Women have accumalated tension which usually in my opinion is released by tears. So besides releasing water works, they will then move on to the next best thing, as tearing will just make a puffy face...which is to talk. And naturally what comes out of a woman's mouth as usual.. would be the nagging if not the complaining of what the find to be either annoying, irritating, sexist and the list goes on.

Speaking of tension, i noticed that women naturally have this habit of keeping the past. Why is that so? I dont' know even if i ask myself, cause personally keeping up with particular pasts is bad. Past is past. It is history. However maybe women have this idea that history will repeat itself and therefore they cling on to it, hoping to either revert it or maybe prevent it. Then following that because they try to prevent it too much and nag to much about it, it then causes them stress and disappointment. Women just have this natural habit to keep to it, because of why... memories!!! As much as a memory is beautiful, women tend to like holding on to bad memories as well, even when they know for a fact that it is bad for them to do so. Women have this thing also for when they hav this particular memory, good or bad, they just have to talk about it and make it all dramatic. In fact i've noticed after speaking with other girls, that when i tell thme of a problem that i have, they can actually relate to me with much zest...
I wonder whether is it because they are at the same time actualyl reflecting on something in themselves that also troubles them..

Am I wrong? It can be possible..I'm to saying it is the answer.

And following that, why are women so particular with the little things, that can seem so trivial at times? Or to be more exact, the mushy wushy things. Women.. i admit myself too... are suckers for the sweetness of things in life. The minute someone does something 'genuinely' nice, we
(I'm starting to write we, cause i do not deny i am woman) are hooked, line and sinker. Then after that when it is not done anymore... we just have to whine, saying 'Why don't you do itanymore?" Have i done some thing wrong? or mroe so they then become perasan thinking... ohh he's in to me!?

Oh well that constitutes the complaint's (haha naturally) of a woman today. All men and women are free to rebutt... :P

5 comments:

Complaints being a woman huh, why not stop complaining and make the best of the situation? Take up a hobby hehe

11:20 AM  

Dear, Purist...

Well bloggin happens to be on of the hobbies... and i have stated why i blogged about it... probably one can call me bored.. but probably i can't stand how us women think at times ^_~ call me a traitor to my own kind...:P

11:29 AM  

hey..
TOTALLY identify with this stupid habit of women keeping the MEMORIES alive.. What for? Even i cant figure out.. HATE this habit in myself!! sometimes(hell, a lotta times!), its betther to just LET GO.. that never happens.. Love the pc u wrote. so absolutely true.

3:39 PM  

hey.. u left a msg fer me at fikris blog.. wanted to tell u that love is a farce cos ive experienced it myself.. ur def. of true love holds absolutely true fer me.. yes, u do give up everything fer tht one spl person, who loves u with the same intensity, but one day, its all gone.. is it really worth it? na..

8:25 PM  

Well on my part, earth wise if u are talking about a person u are really in love with, u'll know what to do. For those who are not too sure whether they are in love with the other person, i think it;s because they are afraid of being hurt. And when u love a person, it is never gone... the type of relationship (bf-gf) maybe gone, but the a different kind of love will be there.... The love of brothers and sisters.

But in anycase.. when i say give all, i refer to One being that deserves your all...God.

11:18 AM  



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